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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 01:02

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

The only rule us 5 kids had .

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

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One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Have you ever been a victim of gaslighting? What happened?

I said to her

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

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5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

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But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

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She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

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But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

It was going to be , some day.

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Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

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Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

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I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

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And i lived it daily.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Why did i forgive my father ?

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I never cut or harmed myself..

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

(And it was in our own minds.)

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

She married twice! .

My family never makes their pension either.

I was seconnd youngest,

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Who then, do I blame.?

So whats the point in blame.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

On the 31st of Jan this month .

One cannot live in the past .

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

We were not on the streets..

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I will be 64.

I waited trembling.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

She wouldn,t have been !

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I was scared of men, in general

I have no regrets .

Put me off passion for life!!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

She was in good health!

This is soul school!.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I was 9 years of age.

But it wasn’t much.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

We all went to grammer schools

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

So, i spoilt her more .

Ive learnt so much.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Would this be the day?

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Especially a lifetime of it.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

But ive been too sick for many years..

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I write beautiful poetry .

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I think the readers, may guess!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Was to survive, this bastard.

As i do to all so called friends.?

But, we were locked up after school.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

I was very sick at this time too.

He knew the spot.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

She found it foreign!.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

When she asked me how she looked .

They are buried together, in the same grave..

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I couldn’t, believe it.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

He resisted the act ,that day.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Comes on , in middle age.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

I could never make a relationship work though!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

My mum and dad in the seventies!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

All the time i was locked up.

I don,t even have a pension.

She loved him until the end.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

My life is so biszare .

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Im still living with it.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

What did i know ?

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.